posted by CaiteeRose2013
Thursday, September 29, 2016
Hamm reading on stage (2011)
Tuesday, September 27, 2016
Director Paul Feig about Hamm
How did Jon Hamm fit in with all the comedy nerds on this film ?
P.F : He is such a comedy nerd. He ill quote lines from "Kids in the Hall: Brain Candy". You're quoting something even I can't quote ! He's always wanted to do comedy . One of the next things I'm developing a project for him to star in. I think he's so funny. He's like Cary Grant to me.
Jon Hamm is inspired casting. Did he help push that Ted logic further?
[Laughs] That’s Jon Hamm. He’s one of my favorite people in the world, because he’s this incredibly handsome man but he’s a total goofball. He loves comedy and he can quote us under the table, and we’re the kings of being able to quote comedy. He’s gregarious and goofy, in a fun way. He just overtook the character. So many times it’s about how the actor interprets stuff. First of all, we knew it was going to be him, so we were writing towards him.
don't really have much to ask, so I just wanted to let you know that I got giddy every time I saw your name pop up on an episode of Mad Men. They were always the best episodes. Love your work.
- Thanks so much. I only got to do one but had the best time. Jon Hamm and I always stayed friends after that. Another great guy. The whole cast was great. It was a blast. When I showed up on my first day, though, since I always wear a suit they thought I was there to audition for a part. The perils of suit wearing in LA!
http://interviewly.com/i/paul-feig-dec-2012-reddit
- Thanks so much. I only got to do one but had the best time. Jon Hamm and I always stayed friends after that. Another great guy. The whole cast was great. It was a blast. When I showed up on my first day, though, since I always wear a suit they thought I was there to audition for a part. The perils of suit wearing in LA!
http://interviewly.com/i/paul-feig-dec-2012-reddit
CK: At the same time it must be fun working with more established stars and playing against the image the audience has of them. I’m thinking of Jon Hamm in Bridesmaids.
PF: Very much so, and Hamm is one of my heroes. I got to know him when I directed Mad Men and we became buddies. The fact that he’s such a comedy aficionado and loves it so much, yeah that’s really fun too. But then, that’s not the same as working with the A-list star who comes in with his team and he has to guard his image. That’s not as fun because you don’t have the freedom to play. Like Hamm, my God! The funny stuff he would do for us in that opening sex scene. We shot so much stuff. Talk about two people with no egos and no worries about how they looked or what they were doing. And you love them for it as an audience member because you get such funny stuff.
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PF: Very much so, and Hamm is one of my heroes. I got to know him when I directed Mad Men and we became buddies. The fact that he’s such a comedy aficionado and loves it so much, yeah that’s really fun too. But then, that’s not the same as working with the A-list star who comes in with his team and he has to guard his image. That’s not as fun because you don’t have the freedom to play. Like Hamm, my God! The funny stuff he would do for us in that opening sex scene. We shot so much stuff. Talk about two people with no egos and no worries about how they looked or what they were doing. And you love them for it as an audience member because you get such funny stuff.
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Hamm was the same way. Hamm’s a guy who was knocking around for a long time. He was a waiter. I remember him being my waiter at Ciudad. I remember hitting it off with this really handsome and funny waiter and the next thing I know I’m directing him in an episode of Mad Men and I’m like “Wait a minute! I remember you!”
http://www.awardsdaily.com/2011/11/14/interview-bridesmaids-director-paul-feig
http://www.awardsdaily.com/2011/11/14/interview-bridesmaids-director-paul-feig
SM: I understand you’re teaming up with Judd again for a new film; it’s being described as an unconventional love story” and the rumour is that it’ll star Jon Hamm and Melissa McCarthy.PF: Yeah, that rumour just came out this morning, which I was trying to hide. I don’t mind that it’s out there. Nothing’s official; who knows if they’ll do it. That would be my dream, to have the two of them, because I love them as performers and I’ve always wanted to tell a love story about two people falling in love who Hollywood wouldn’t normally let fall in love.
https://www.quickflix.com.au/News/Interviews/Bridesmaids/7657..................
As he should be. The Bridesmaids director rang up Movieline from London on Friday afternoon where he's busy writing what he called "Dumb Jock," the romantic comedy that could star Jon Hamm and Melissa McCarthy. "I'm very excited about that project," he said. "I'm writing with them in mind, and it's just a love story that I've always wanted to write, that I think will be really funny, but will play much more real than most quote-unquote romantic comedies. Fingers crossed, I get them to do it."
http://movieline.com/2011/07/05/paul-feig-on-the-record-breaking-success-of-bridesmaid
Are you working on anything else right now?Yeah, the movie for Melissa that I actually sold before Bridesmaids came out. It’s been a real pet project of mine to do a love story, and then I started working with Melissa. I don’t know if Jon’s going to do it, but I was writing it for Jon Hamm and Melissa—basically a story where he falls in love with her and gets obsessed with her.
http://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2012/01/oscar-qa-paul-feig-bridesmaids
It was one of those things where I was like ‘Oh, that wasn’t supposed to come out’ but I’m kinda glad it did; I’ve been secretive about it the past few months but I guess I’ve dropped enough hints too. It’s a real passion project; again, I just want to tell stories that don’t normally get told and this is another of those.”
“They’re the inspiration for it”, Feig says of Hamm and McCarthy, adding that the film would be a “very unconventional love story, in the vein of [Bridesmaids]. Judd and I have a very specific storytelling style – it’s very real and out of the reality we’ll try to make it as funny as possible. I’m excited about that.”
Feig says he’s a huge fan of both actors, describing Jon Hamm as “the new Cary Grant, because he’s so funny but so effortless” and McCarthy as “just a force of nature”.
http://moviehole.net/201142195exclusive-feig-on-the-hammmccarthy-movie-rumour
“They’re the inspiration for it”, Feig says of Hamm and McCarthy, adding that the film would be a “very unconventional love story, in the vein of [Bridesmaids]. Judd and I have a very specific storytelling style – it’s very real and out of the reality we’ll try to make it as funny as possible. I’m excited about that.”
Feig says he’s a huge fan of both actors, describing Jon Hamm as “the new Cary Grant, because he’s so funny but so effortless” and McCarthy as “just a force of nature”.
http://moviehole.net/201142195exclusive-feig-on-the-hammmccarthy-movie-rumour
There was some talk of a romantic comedy starring Jon Hamm and Melissa McCarthy. What’s happening with that?Yeah, I wrote it, and the studio loved it, but Jon and Melissa didn’t want to do it. It’s one of my favorite things I’ve ever written. Maybe we’ll relaunch it. I love funny Hamm. Before I directed Mad Men, they sent me the pilot. I obviously loved the style, but I was really shocked at how humorless Hamm was. I thought he was going to be so boring to work with. Then I show up on the set, and he’s like this total comedy geek. I think I’m encyclopedic, but he knows the most obscure stuff.
http://grantland.com/features/qa-bridesmaids-heat-director-paul-feig/
So I go, ‘Hey, Bill, it’s Paul.’ And I make my speech and then it clicks off. Did I just get hung up on or what? So, we had no idea, to the point where…
DEADLINE: You never heard his voice?
FEIG: Never did. I just knew he got the script. I heard he was interested, and then we are at the point where it was time to shoot it, and we had no confirmation. I go, “If he doesn’t show up, I can’t lose the day. I got to get somebody to do this.” So, do I call Jon Hamm? “Hey, Jon, would you do this part, but if Bill Murray shows up, you’re fired?” I decided I’ll play it but thinking, “Please don’t let that happen.” The day came and it’s like, OK, he’s at the airport. And then he showed up and wanted to do what we had written.
How Do You Direct a Sex Scene? 10 Directors Tell Their Secrets
Paul Feig, BridesmaidsIn the film’s first scene, Annie (Kristen Wiig) hooks up with handsome, douchey Ted (Jon Hamm), and they’re not exactly on the same wavelength. “Cup my balls,” Ted orders her, before eventually bouncing Annie from bed: “I really want you to leave,” he admits, “but I don’t know how to say it without sounding like a dick.”
No one is less comfortable with doing a sex scene than me, and that’s why I knew the only way we could do this is by doing a funny one. It wasn’t me being the creepy guy — I wasn’t turning them into Coco from Fame. Although, I can tell you that one of the only days my wife visited the set was the day Jon Hamm was having his sex scene.
You just have to face it like it’s any other highly choreographed scene and find the physicality. The only way we were able to get through it is by making each other laugh, so it became this hilarious wrestling match — if you really look at it, it’s less like a sex scene and more like a crazy fight. Jon was so game, and he and Kristen were literally just trying to crack each other up. We kept saying, “Let’s get more absurd,” because we had the safety of knowing it would be ridiculously funny.
http://www.vulture.com/2016/12/famous-movie-sex-scenes-behind-the-scenes.html
Awards Campaign: Have you seen ‘Friends with Kids’ yet?
Paul Feig: No, no. I”m dying to.
Awards Campaign: You would be very happy because even though it”s a supporting part, she has a pretty intense arc with Jon Hamm’s character. They really pull it off.
Paul Feig: Oh, good.
http://uproxx.com/hitfix/an-epic-conversation-on-bridesmaids
Awards Campaign: You would be very happy because even though it”s a supporting part, she has a pretty intense arc with Jon Hamm’s character. They really pull it off.
Paul Feig: Oh, good.
http://uproxx.com/hitfix/an-epic-conversation-on-bridesmaids
Glamour: What was it like shooting sex scenes with Kristen Wiig and Jon Hamm?
Feig: In my career, I have had to shoot sex scenes occasionally, and it’s my least favorite thing to do. I’m just so uncomfortable with it and I feel so bad for everybody, including myself. But we knew we wanted to shoot this movie out of a cannon and we thought, “What a funny way to open a movie, with just, like, an insane sex scene!” Jon Hamm and Kristen are so funny that we said, “Let’s not look at this as a sex scene, let’s look at this as a fight scene.” That’s what it is, a professional wrestling scene. Shooting it, we just had this camera crane going around like, “Next position! Next position!” It was like this big action scene. There’s nothing sexy about that scene at all, and that’s what made it so fun.
Tuesday, September 20, 2016
Adman George Lois about Hamm
Iron-willed, sharp-witted and perhaps even capable of successfully selling ice in the arctic, it’s hardly surprising that Lois is regularly cited as the inspiration for Mad Men and Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce. But, as we discover, Lois sees nothing complimentary about being hailed as ‘the original Don Draper’.
“I take that as a personal insult,” he fumes. “Don Draper is a no-talent hack! Advertising in the Sixties was an incredible, heroic age but [Mad Men] shows these womanising scumbags who drink and smoke themselves to death. Honestly, it’s one of the dopiest shows I ever saw.”
So, he never knocked back an old fashioned or two between pitches?
“I’ve been drunk once in my life!” he yells. “But you know what happened the other day? I met Jon Hamm [who plays Draper] at a party. Nice guy, actually. He came running up, gave me a hug and said, ‘I’m your biggest fan!’ Unless he’s the greatest actor that ever lived, he really seemed to mean it.”
http://www.shortlist.com/news/the-ad-man-who-shook-the-world
“I take that as a personal insult,” he fumes. “Don Draper is a no-talent hack! Advertising in the Sixties was an incredible, heroic age but [Mad Men] shows these womanising scumbags who drink and smoke themselves to death. Honestly, it’s one of the dopiest shows I ever saw.”
So, he never knocked back an old fashioned or two between pitches?
“I’ve been drunk once in my life!” he yells. “But you know what happened the other day? I met Jon Hamm [who plays Draper] at a party. Nice guy, actually. He came running up, gave me a hug and said, ‘I’m your biggest fan!’ Unless he’s the greatest actor that ever lived, he really seemed to mean it.”
http://www.shortlist.com/news/the-ad-man-who-shook-the-world
Saturday, September 17, 2016
Jennifer Westfeldt and Jon Hamm
Westfeldt, calls "a goofball and a science nerd and a voracious reader and a fanatical Cardinals fan and a comedy geek."
How did you and Jennifer meet?
We were both involved with other people when we met, so there was no immediate explosion. It was more of a slower get-to-know-each-other situation. About a year later, we started dating.http://entertainment.inquirer.net/36135/jon-hamm-mad-about-his-girl
..... There's the pretty West Hollywood house with the Spanish gate where Westfeldt lived when the two hooked up. There's the bungalow in Thai Town where Hamm spent one year, telling Westfeldt that he just needed to know what it was like to have his own place. ("She got it.") Then their first place together: the huge secondfloor apartment in Los Feliz with its view of the Griffith Observatory. Here, Hamm says, is where he first felt like an adult.
http://www.gq.com/story/jon-hamm-mad-men
http://www.gq.com/story/jon-hamm-mad-men
At a party in 1997, he met Westfeldt, best known for co-writing and starring in the 2001 comedy Kissing Jessica Stein. Later he helped her rehearse lines for an audition.
“She didn’t get the part, which may be my fault, but she got the guy.”
http://parade.com/28975/davidhochman/jon-hamm
On meeting Westfeldt "Jen and I met in L.A. at a party -- a mutual friend's birthday party... completely random meeting... she was out here auditioning for a pilot or something... and I was, too... and she got an audition for Jake Kasdan's film Zero Effect [1998]... and wanted to read with somebody who was a guy, and she didn't really know any guys out here, so she called... and that was, kind of, how we first officially met, running scenes from Zero Effect. Apparently I wasn't very good, 'cause she didn't get the part."
Westfeldt was subsequently invited to read for a part in a film (Zero Effect) opposite Bill Pullman. On the day of final casting, down to the last two for the role, she called up the friend whose party she had been to and asked if she knew of an actor she could run through her lines with, before the audition. The friend suggested Hamm.
"And I said, 'You mean that arrogant guy from the party? No thank you...'" Westfeldt recalls. As the fates would have it, no one else was around, so Hamm it had to be. Westfeldt drove over to the apartment he was sharing with four other guys in the Silver Lake district of LA (then an edgy suburb, now the place to be, and where they have their home). "I got lost in my little white rental car. I was having visions of The Bonfire of the Vanities. But when I got there, Jon was so sweet and he worked on these lines with me. I was like, 'God, this guy is so talented... and so handsome!'"
https://www.theguardian.com/film/2012/jun/03/jennifer-westfeldt-friends-kids
On the first question begged by Friends with Kids: were he and Westfeldt friends first? "Oh, yeah, very much so. She was involved with somebody, and I may have been involved, as well. Yeah, we were friends for a long time before we officially started dating -- and we've never gotten out of the 'dating' thing. We're still in it."
Jennifer Westfeldt is scrolling excitedly through her iPhone looking for pictures of her dog to show me. It's an alsatian cross, weighs four stone, and in the photo she clicks to the dog is sprawled on the lap of Jon Hamm......but when Westfeldt zooms to a close-up it is the dog's features she dwells on: "She is such a beauty, isn't she? Such a pretty girl. Dogs just need you and love, that's all. She is our daughter really – at least the closest we've got..."
Hamm credits his partner's inquisitive nature as the basis for her insight into human dynamics.
"Jennifer is a question-asker. She doesn't take anything at face value and it's a big part of why I'm tremendously attracted to her . At turns that's incredibly awesome, incredibly frustrating and incredibly adorable. I find that curiosity in people inspiring."
"We've always been the most important person to one another'...."Some children in our lives we would take a bullet for, we feel so close to. But we can also go home at the end of the day."
http://articles.latimes.com/2012/mar/08/entertainment/la-et-Jennifer
famous at last
Their unmarried state still arouses curiosity in 2009, and Hamm is clearly tired of defending it: "It couldn't be a simpler answer. Marriage doesn't really mean anything to me. I feel like in many ways marriage is more for the families [of the couple] than for the people involved, so I don't gravitate to it. But I've also said that the minute Jen is like, `You need to marry me,' I'll be like, `All right!' We are both on the same page. Although that may shift; I don't know. I don't need to be married, but I feel married."
He's persistently loyal to his longtime friends and his girlfriend. "I'm not a cheater. I've never cheated in my life," ......
HAMM: Jennifer has been a remarkable and wonderful presence in my life. I’m so glad to still be able to enjoy a very good life together with her after all this time. I met her when I was at a very low point in my life and wondering whether I could ever make it as an actor. I remember driving her around L.A. in my beat-up Volkswagen Rabbit which had no roof and was on the verge of falling apart at any moment. But she was one of those gracious and generous women who believed in me and supported me even though my prospects didn’t look that good. Her faith kept me going and soon afterwards I landed a role on a series (Providence) that enabled me to stay in the business and I’ve never looked back since.
https://sg.style.yahoo.com/news/jon-hamm-dont-exploit-personal-pain 
Q: The media keeps speculating on whether you will ever get married?
HAMM: Why should we get married now? I’ve never had much respect for the idea of marriage ever since my parents got divorced when I was two. We both love each other and care for each other and the idea of having a paper that says we belong together doesn’t mean anything to me. I’m just lucky to have such a great woman in my life.https://sg.style.yahoo.com/news/jon-hamm-dont-exploit-personal-pain
Marriage doesn’t mean anything to me. It’s more for their families than for the two partners, so I’m not gravitating towards it. I’m very loyal, I’ve never strayed, and never wanted to. I don’t need to be married, because I feel married.’
DailyMail.com
It was never a discussion. I think marriage often is an arrangement between families more than an arrangement between the two people involved. I don’t have a particularly defined example of marriage in my life. My parents got divorced when I was two and never remarried. So it doesn’t mean anything to me. I don’t mean to say that it shouldn’t mean things to other people. I’m not judging it one way or another. It’s just my experience. I don’t have that paragon of married life to look at and think, Oh yeah, that’s it! That’s what I want!
As Westfeldt describes it, their professional lives have had a complex effect on their ability to be together as a family — pulling them apart geographically, but therefore forcing them to be “really active in our commitment,” rather than falling back on habit or proximity
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/03/11/magazine/jennifer-westfeldt
Jennifer Westfeldt: No, he's incredibly sexy, but he also can be shy and humble and goofy. He's not anything like the philandering, dark guy that is Don Draper. I think the fact that the role is iconic sort of gives certain people license to say all kinds of things that no one would say if you knew him. That's the trickiest part of this incredible fame that he has deserved, by the way, for so long. I don't understand why it took so many years. He'd been out there hustling and trying to get great parts for 13 years, 15 years before this happened. And I remember network test after network test and being so disheartened and looking at me and saying like, "I have to get a job." And I'm thinking, "No it's a no-brainer, it's all going to come together. It's ridiculous, but it just has to be the right thing, and then everything is going to happen. I know it." It's amazing that it has, and if we have to deal with a few inappropriate or weird comments from strangers, well, that's the price you have to pay.
http://www.gq.com/story/jennifer-westfeldt-interview
http://www.gq.com/story/jennifer-westfeldt-interview
Back at Hamm and Westfeldt's home, we sit in the sundrenched backyard, watching hummingbirds dart in and out of the trees. Cora dozes at Hamm's feet. At first, he says, the couple's decision not to get married was a pointed one. "We thought, Marriage is for squares," he says. "Now it's more that neither of us has particularly good models of what a marriage is supposed to be. It's not something we grew up wanting." (Being among the last of their friends to remain childless does put a crimp in the couple's social life, but as Hamm points out, "If you want to have dinner after 6 p.m., there are always the gays!")
On the second question begged by Friends with Kids: do they have kids?
"We don't. It's always on the periphery of the discussion, but we do not have children. You know, it's a tricky balance to strike. And I have a tremendous amount of respect for my friends who do balance this particular career with raising a kid, 'cause it's a tricky environment to bring them into... So not for us just yet."http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/race/jon-hamm
“I don’t have the marriage chip, and neither of us have the greatest examples of marriages in our families. But Jen is the love of my life, and we’ve already been together four times longer than my parents were married.”
Nor is he rushing to have children.
“I like kids but I also like the option to close the door. Becoming a parent is a whole other life, and it doesn’t stop.”
http://parade.com/28975/davidhochman/jon-hamm
Nor is he rushing to have children.
“I like kids but I also like the option to close the door. Becoming a parent is a whole other life, and it doesn’t stop.”
Did that strike a chord with you? You don’t have kids.
‘Yes, definitely. Jen and I have been together for a long, long time, and the sense of family in our lives is different to most. But it doesn’t make it less significant.’
Have you ever had any second thoughts about having kids?
‘No. I don’t need children. Look, if it happened tomorrow that would be another thing. But I’m older than dirt. So it would be difficult. A lot of our friends have kids and their children are eight, ten years old. We’ve watched them go through it.’
http://www.timeout.com/london/film/jon-hamm‘Yes, definitely. Jen and I have been together for a long, long time, and the sense of family in our lives is different to most. But it doesn’t make it less significant.’
Have you ever had any second thoughts about having kids?
‘No. I don’t need children. Look, if it happened tomorrow that would be another thing. But I’m older than dirt. So it would be difficult. A lot of our friends have kids and their children are eight, ten years old. We’ve watched them go through it.’
We complement each other. After 15 years together, it’s a good place to be at. We make up for each other’s deficiencies very nicely. I overheard Jennifer saying that she’s very detail-oriented and hyper-aware of everything. I’m a little more laid-back and tend to be like, “Let’s relax.”
I think those traits can be amped up to a fault. I can be so laid-back that I tend to fall asleep. She can be so hypercritical that she can’t fall asleep. We balance each other out in that respect. I think that is what has contributed to our longevity as a couple. We’re also very honest and upfront with each other. We don’t hide anything from each other. If something bothers us, we air it, deal with it and move on. It’s a very adult way of dealing with problems.
http://entertainment.inquirer.net/36135/jon-hammI think those traits can be amped up to a fault. I can be so laid-back that I tend to fall asleep. She can be so hypercritical that she can’t fall asleep. We balance each other out in that respect. I think that is what has contributed to our longevity as a couple. We’re also very honest and upfront with each other. We don’t hide anything from each other. If something bothers us, we air it, deal with it and move on. It’s a very adult way of dealing with problems.
"It's not changed a lot in our family," she says. "It changes a lot just in our time in the outside world. It's strange to get photographed walking a dog in the neighbourhood. Losing your privacy in that way is a bit strange, so we treasure our time at home. But we have been together so long that his long overdue fame – in my opinion – works better at this age. We've seen the ups and downs in both of our careers. We are aware that everything is fleeting, whereas our relationship isn't. So you can appreciate the moments of success with more perspective."
Working together is clearly one way of ensuring that she and her partner get to spend time together, especially when work commitments take them to different places. "A lot depends on what I'm working on," says Westfeldt. "The last time he was shooting Mad Men I was doing a play in New York so we were commuting. We live in LA and have a small rental in New York. It depends on our jobs how our day-to-day lives are."
As for directing her partner, she says: "He doesn't require much direction. He's a pretty good actor. He is not like Don Draper at all...
So, do you and Jon want to have kids?
It’s funny — we’re certainly not opposed. I guess, it’s definitely … Our lives have been so crazy the past few years. We’ve been working on separate coasts a lot. I was doing a play; Jon was doing Mad Men. I think you have to be ready to be in one place if you’re going to embark on that. We’ll see what the future brings. Was it challenging working with your boyfriend?
Jon? He’s a dream to work with, he’s a dream to be with. That’s not challenging.
http://www.vulture.com/2011/09/_jennifer_westfeldt
Hamm and Jennifer Westfeldt stopped on the red carpet at the Emmys to chat with Giuliana Rancic about the secret to a lasting relationship
Breath mints. That’s always important,” Jon joked. “What else babe?”“We have no secrets,” Jennifer said. “There’s no secrets.”
“It’s all good,” said Jon.
We may not have a piece of paper that says we’re husband and wife, but after 10 years, Jennifer is more than just a girlfriend. What we have is much deeper and we both know that. To me, people [should] get married when they’re ready to have kids, which I’m not ruling out.”
Since you and Jon Hamm were together before the Mad Man phenomenon hit, what was the oddest thing that you observed about his sudden fame and do you think the world views him differently than you do?
Westfeldt: Sure, definitely. [laughs] Part of the amazing success of Mad Men is the element of fantasy about it, his character in particular. What goes along with that character is the sex symbol status. If we compare the successes we had in our careers, I remember when people were responding to ‘Kissing Jessica Stein,’ the type of recognition I would get is people coming up and saying, ‘I was at the wedding and we sat at table nine together.’ It would take them ten minutes to realize that they had seen me in a movie and we weren’t friends. When people see Jon, they faint or scream or cry. [laughs] We couldn’t be more opposite on the way people perceive us based on the work we do.
Since you took on this subject, and you personally don’t have kids, do you feel any pressure to make a decision about having children in your own life?
Westfeldt: I feel we like kids, and we have a lot of kids in our life. We might choose to do it, there are a lot of ways to have a family in this world, but we may not, we’ve been pretty happy as we are and if we decide to take that on I’m sure we’ll find a way to do it.
Your partner is suddenly very, very famous. What’s that like?
It’s weird for both of us. He’s doing great work, but all the rest is bullshit. People I’ve met a million times will say, “I didn’t know you’re dating Jon Hamm!” It’s hilarious and unbelievable. My fame is the kind where people think they know me from a wedding or maybe I’m a friend of a friend—as opposed to his recognition, which is more like, “Oh my God, I’ll die if I see Jon Hamm!” Jonny’s very famous, but he’s not in crazy-land yet, where you can’t go anywhere. I would never want that, but we’ll see where it goes. I still haven’t come up with a good answer to “He’s so hot, how did you land him?” or “You’re so lucky to be with him!” Um, thanks?
It’s weird for both of us. He’s doing great work, but all the rest is bullshit. People I’ve met a million times will say, “I didn’t know you’re dating Jon Hamm!” It’s hilarious and unbelievable. My fame is the kind where people think they know me from a wedding or maybe I’m a friend of a friend—as opposed to his recognition, which is more like, “Oh my God, I’ll die if I see Jon Hamm!” Jonny’s very famous, but he’s not in crazy-land yet, where you can’t go anywhere. I would never want that, but we’ll see where it goes. I still haven’t come up with a good answer to “He’s so hot, how did you land him?” or “You’re so lucky to be with him!” Um, thanks?
"We've had so much chaos with Mad Men, Jon's incredible fame, and flying back and forth just to spend 36 hours together, that this was the most day-in, day-out interaction we've had in a while. It was great," she says. "But because I'm always pushing to live in Manhattan, with 10-degree weather, I was like, 'Come on, city, make my man excited about moving here, please!'"
http://www.marieclaire.com/celebrity/a6961/jennifer-westfeldt-interview/
Their unmarried state still arouses curiosity in 2009, and Hamm is clearly tired of defending it: "It couldn't be a simpler answer. Marriage doesn't really mean anything to me. I feel like in many ways marriage is more for the families [of the couple] than for the people involved, so I don't gravitate to it. But I've also said that the minute Jen is like, `You need to marry me,' I'll be like, `All right!' We are both on the same page. Although that may shift; I don't know. I don't need to be married, but I feel married."
BATD: Jon is very modest in interviews, he says he’s not handsome, and he’s not the new George Clooney.
JW: That’s just silly, He’s not handsome!? She laughs and jokes….. yeah, he’s really hard to look at! I think it’s actually refreshing. Jon flogged it out for so many years, getting rejected and not getting anything great and I think the fact that fame has come later, it means he has a better perspective on it and takes it with a grain of salt.
http://www.beautyandthedirt.com/interviews/interview-jennifer-westfeldt/
I don’t have kids, but I’ve been a teacher, I’ve been a day-care teacher; I have tons of nieces and nephews, and I feel like all of these people are my family. I lost my parents very young. I’ve had a lot of surrogate parents in my life—you know ... family, friends—who have sort of adopted me in many ways, so I have a very fluid definition of family as well.
https://mom.me/entertainment/12413-jon-hamm-im-modern-family
Batd: Do you feel that the movie is carrying a message from Jennifer?
"I have a lady, she's a great lady .I love her a lot, she loves me. We're on the same page. Whenever that day happens when we're not on the same page, we'll move forward with it. We're interested in having our lives be our lives right now and not a third person's vis-a-vis marriage and whatever that means."
I've met Mr. Clooney several times and he's a lovely guy, but my interest in his personal life sort of ends there. Jen [actress Jennifer Westfeldt] and I have been together for many years, and it's kind of mind-boggling to me that people even care.
http://www.elle.com/culture/celebrities/news/a18385/jon-hamm
they never go two weeks without seeing one another. She told the NY Times, “We’ve done it even if we just have one afternoon together. And even if we’re in the same place, we prioritize making sure we have time and spend time. Especially now with all the demands on Jon’s time and our privacy.”
BATD: Do you think you noticed if you have a biological clock, Or what happens now if one suddenly kicks in?
JW: We love kids and we’re very much honorary aunts and uncles and godparents to our friend’s kids. But our lives are so odd. We’re always traveling and we’re never in the same place. It’s such a gypsy life to be an actor. It doesn’t feel very proper or stable for a child. If that changes or if we’re suddenly clear that that’s what we want, we’d have to make a million changes. Obviously, who knows if it would be possible biologically? Who knows what method we would use if we decided that was what we wanted? And we haven’t yet, so we’ll seeBATD: Jon is very modest in interviews, he says he’s not handsome, and he’s not the new George Clooney.
JW: That’s just silly, He’s not handsome!? She laughs and jokes….. yeah, he’s really hard to look at! I think it’s actually refreshing. Jon flogged it out for so many years, getting rejected and not getting anything great and I think the fact that fame has come later, it means he has a better perspective on it and takes it with a grain of salt.
http://www.beautyandthedirt.com/interviews/interview-jennifer-westfeldt/
What experiences from your own family life did you bring to the film?
I’m in a modern family, myself. Everyone’s like, "When are you and Jen (Westfeldt) going to get married?" We’ve been together for 16 years, and yet we’ve, we’re very, we’re as married as anybody.I don’t have kids, but I’ve been a teacher, I’ve been a day-care teacher; I have tons of nieces and nephews, and I feel like all of these people are my family. I lost my parents very young. I’ve had a lot of surrogate parents in my life—you know ... family, friends—who have sort of adopted me in many ways, so I have a very fluid definition of family as well.
https://mom.me/entertainment/12413-jon-hamm-im-modern-family
It’s disingenuous to say you don’t know that’s a possibility if you’ve got uberfame, which is what he does, but at the same time, you really don’t know what it’s going to be like. People want to see him wherever he goes. You can’t do anything about it.
NY Times
NY Times
Westfeldt has also talked about how she doesn't see them having children. "I never thought I'd be this age and not have kids," she told the New York Times magazine. "But my life has also gone in a million ways I never anticipated. I kept feeling like I'd wake up with absolute clarity, and I haven't. And we have a pretty great life together."
Batd: So as a couple without kids, what do you get to do that your friends may be jealous of? Hamm: Well we get to spend Jubilee weekend in London...and we were just in Southern Italy on the Amalfi coast for a week before this. Part of being an actor is to be available on a moment’s notice..
Batd: She doesn’t dress you? Hamm, (he laughs) No she doesn’t dress me. Having kids, it’s something we’ve never ruled out.
"I don't necessarily want kids. A lot of our friends are having children and I don't know if it's for me. I haven't come down hardcore on either side of the argument. I think when people come from a stable family having children becomes a celebration and I'm not sure it would be that way for me."
Batd: You must be ambashed by these questions at the moment as a couple with this movie, especially Jen? Hamm: It is a very hot button topic. There is a bit of a curious thing when certain women are pushed on the question, on some levels it feels like there’s an expectation and my take is that I don’t think everybody necessarily should have kids. Some people do. I’m glad my Mother did or we wouldn’t be having this conversation now.
http://www.beautyandthedirt.com/interviews/we-met-jon-hamm/
Hamm: No, if Jennifer wants to get a message to me she knows where I live, she certainly doesn’t need to raise several million dollars and make a movie about it, she can just walk over and talk to me. And we’re pretty good at communication as well. We wanted to make this movie because we thought it was an interesting story and it was something we’d watched a lot of our friends go through and at a certain level of our lives. There are times in our lives when there are these watershed moments, when you grow up in your 20’s there’s that summer when you go to 5 weddings, and in your 30’s there’s the summer when you feel like you’ve bought 5 baby shower gifts. Then there’s the second baby that comes and then the divorce and then the second marriage. There are these sign posts in everyone’s life, especially in western culkture and we thought it would make an interesting story and we hope we covered it.
http://thetvpage.com/2015/01/10/interview-jon-hamm-wants-host-saturday-night-live/
It’s a confusing juxtaposition," Westfeldt says. "I think the darkness of Don has weighed heavily on Jon, despite it being the role of a lifetime and the opportunity that gave him the career of his dreams. The end was of course bittersweet and complicated for Jonny. But I know that when he wrapped the show in L.A., in the wee hours of July 3 last year, and then immediately got on a plane to New York to meet me and our dog, Cora, for dinner with a few close friends and to watch the fireworks, he felt a predominant sense of relief. He remarked on the cosmic coincidence of the date: Independence Day. Finally."
http://www.gq.com/story/jon-hamm-after-mad-men
cough ! cough ! cough ! actor Guy Pearce..
Did [longtime partner, actress Jennifer Westfeldt] give you any advice or help you through the transition at all?
Well, Jen and I have been together for 17 years now. And everything that happens in our lives gets run by one or the other. So while there was no specific advice on how to deal with it, of course having a partner that is incredibly supportive of you is wonderfully helpful. In fact, the day after we wrapped, I flew to New York. Jen and I watched fireworks in New York City and then we went to Martha’s Vineyard for two weeks to decompress. That was really nice.http://thetvpage.com/2015/01/10/interview-jon-hamm-wants-host-saturday-night-live/
http://www.gq.com/story/jon-hamm-after-mad-men
"With great sadness, we have decided to separate, after 18 years of love and shared history .We will continue to be supportive of each other in every way possible moving forward."
cough ! cough !...his PR is a genius.....the hazing, the rehab, the break up....there was definitively something strange......
How do you finance a film like this? I noticed that Mike Nichols is one of your executive producers.
JW: Well, Mike was involved early. We did a workshop of the screenplay with some actors at New York Stage and Film, this wonderful company on the Vassar campus in the summer, and Mike was one of the screenwriting mentors. So we started with this cold reading, and he, along with others, gave me feedback. He really responded to [the screenplay], and put his name on it, and got involved as sort of a “godfather” of this project, which was lovely.
SS: Are you and Jon Hamm going to be “friends with kids”?
JW: (Laughs) I don’t know. I’ll have to keep you posted. It could go either way, we’ll see. We love kids. We love the kids that are in our lives. It also hasn’t happened yet … so we’re open.
producer Joey Mc Farland
To hear McFarland talk about Westfeldt, it is like the testimony of a proud and enamored partner.
“She is the embodiment of a passionate writer, producer, director and actress. She is a force,” he says. “The truth is, it is easy to like a script on the page, but you have to believe in the people to bring that vision to life on the screen. And when we sat down with Jennifer and Jon, these two soul mates who aren’t married but have been together for years and are best friends and put their own time and money behind this project, it was an awesome experience.”
To hear McFarland talk about Westfeldt, it is like the testimony of a proud and enamored partner.
“She is the embodiment of a passionate writer, producer, director and actress. She is a force,” he says. “The truth is, it is easy to like a script on the page, but you have to believe in the people to bring that vision to life on the screen. And when we sat down with Jennifer and Jon, these two soul mates who aren’t married but have been together for years and are best friends and put their own time and money behind this project, it was an awesome experience.”
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